Find shared interests. Detach yourself. Cindy, I pray in Jesus name for healing within your family. To love someone who hates you is a truly divine kind of love, the kind that allows you to push past the hurt and see people for themselves, beyond whatever misunderstandings or wrongs have piled up between you. To keep things short and simple, I took care of our only granddaughter for four years starting at two months of age after her birth mother tried to murder her. We asked her for forgiveness if we have hurt her in any way. She enjoys weekly movie date nights with her husband of 30-something years and a steaming cup of Earl Grey. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.” A Practical Guide to Loving Those Who Hate You. “Whenever you are confronted with an opponent, conquer him with love.” ~Mahatma Gandhi, about     newsletter     contact    disclaimer     DMCA / removal notice   privacy policy. Thank you for your prayers, Dawn, as well as the reminder of this verse in Exodus. This video is unavailable. Log In. I’m praying for you this morning! He asked the Lord to help him love those who hate him. Our son hasn’t intervened so we’ve only had casual contact with our son since then. I must not be “snarky” but caring & loving just like Jesus. Yet, this is where me and my family find ourselves. ” Even if the hatred stems from what we represent instead of who we are.” 5. Keeping to Yourself “Keeping to myself or being quiet. Sometimes it almost chokes in my throat, but God honors that and gives a sweet peace. Also, following the the commands in Matthew and the parallel section in Luke, plus Romans 12 help me have the Lord’s perspective and heart. by Dawn Camp Community See All. I wanted her to love me unconditionally, to save me from myself with her adoration. I know it’s hard to forget that someone who’s supposed to make you feel safe is the one who hurts you the most. Forgot account? The Bible warns us that openly declaring ourselves as Christian guarantees the hatred of some: And ye shall be hated of all men for my name’s sake . Accept them. Our daughter-in-law isn’t a warm and loving woman but claims to be a Christian (my son is also a Christian). Those who hate you are humans, with their flaws and imperfections. Lv 5. Bev, your words are wise. A whole community hit upon yet just one of the many around the world who have experienced the same. Deeb, I don’t think I can tag both you and Kim, who commented below, in this, so I may post this twice. . Thank you for sharing, and may I wish you a very Happy New Year! I bonded with that child like she was my own and she bonded with us as well. Our precious little granddaughter who is now 6 is starting to wonder what’s going on. The preacher’s words may have taken me off guard at the time, but they stuck with me and I’ve pondered them for months. And THANKING God for that person by name. Now we have anxiety that she will hurl insults and hate towards us again. With God all things are possible! Most of my things on here will be very depressing and sad. This has torn us up inside so my husband and I have been praying, reading and seeking God’s direction. Pertinence. I kept thinking about the verse to live at peace with all men insofar as it depends on me—and when I’d want to quit loving this person (just everyday, you know! We felt God’s leading and it seems that every day we’d see the signs that it was the right thing to do. I close that email and then I read yours. Living with someone who hates you may not be common, but it does happen, and getting out of the situation can be impossible. Listen up, people, we need to earn more haters. See photo. Hated. … Thank you, Michele. Focus on listening, getting to know where they come from so you can become a better friend. But most of us don’t know how to deal with hatred, especially when it is directed toward us. After all, that’s what Jesus did. Thank you for your words. Hatred, as we all recognize, can be harmful both to ourselves and others. He already hates you, so giving him more of you isn't doing you any favors, right? Dawn, would you mind expounding a bit on this sentence? How can I love even if it hurts so horribly. You hate them because you loved them, and you lost them.” The details of what happened between us are complicated, as they usually are. I don’t think I understand it, but for some reason, it stuck out to me as something important. In the journey of life, there are times when we find ourselves trapped in negative emotions and behavior, and to realize this can be very liberating, allowing you to open your heart and embrace those who don’t treat you as nicely as you deserve to be treated. . I have found when I experience these feelings leveled at me, they pull me up short and cause me to examine my own behavior. Christ died for us.” When you understand that those who hate you are in fact very sensitive individuals who have passed through emotional fire and have been psychologically burned, the only thing you would like to see is that they relieve themselves of the burden that has accumulated in their psyche, wishing that they find peace with themselves and those around them, and trying to help them whenever possible. When he thinks about the humiliation she brings upon him, he hates her guts. We talked with our daughter in law and tried to express as much love and acceptance as we could. Love is a powerful word – it carries much weight. Even if the hatred stems from what we represent instead of who we are. It’s time all denominations got on board. The enemy hates our guts but he hated Christ first. Hugs and Blessings. 🙂. Your prayers are appreciated more than you know. We must pray, work at being kind & loving toward those who hate us. Nobody can truly love someone else before one first learns to love himself or herself, because in order to share love, you first need to have love — or rather, to be love. Dear Sister Who Now Hates Me I love my sister but she feels I've stolen her life. It is not self-seeking; it is not easily-angered, it does not keep a record of wrongs. Wow. We felt last week that we need to reach out once more and ask our son and daughter-in-law for THEIR forgiveness for whatever we have said or done to hurt them. I pray healing for your daughter in law’s heart, that whatever hurts she is projecting on to you would be healed within her own heart. You’ve just reminded me that I should go inform that transparent pastor that he inspired my post this month. When she loved me so much she used to tell me im her life and she cannot live without me. We were shocked and hurt to say the least. It is hard for most of us to think anyone would hate us. ), I’d realize I COULD do more. I was advised to show nothing but kindness to someone in my life who wasn’t my enemy, but was very frustrated with me. It was traumatizing to say the least and our only daughter died that same year. As I tell my kids, “You don’t have to tear one person down in order to build another up.” Thank you, friend! Only a woman who is trying to love the way Jesus loved would expend energy and emotion in the direction of her enemies. Dawn, Being in this difficult place of accusations being made against me and an incredible misunderstanding, I remind myself of what love looks like: Love is patient. Praying for your enemies really is powerful! It’s so sad and I desperately want healing in our family. I try so hard to be positive & sweet to this relative but they turn it back on me by being very judgemental. Praying for God to strengthen you. “We were both volunteering at a haunted house and I thought he was someone I knew… hit him (lightly) on the arm from behind… he turned around and punched my arm so hard I had a massive bruise for quite a long time. You will realize that they were neither born hateful nor that they find joy in spreading hatred. SHARE. But there comes a point where the other person has chosen the depth of the relationship, and loving can take the form of healthy boundaries, too. Thank you, Beth. God tells us to love those who hate us. This is one of the ways we put the power of the gospel on display, for sure. Solving the hatred isn't necessarily enough -- not if you want to ever be friends with someone. Marie, just prayed you’d be given the strength to keep showing kindness. I must be kind. But I was startled by the minister’s words. EMAIL. There is not much in a situation like this that I can do, but I can be kind. The more I know about her, the more my heart goes out to her. “Love does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud; it does not dishonor others. Even the ones who may hate me for who — and Whose — I am. 'GMA' host uses sexy pic for climate change pitch. By fighting against those who hate you, the only thing you that will manage to achieve is to add fuel to the fire, being under the false impression that by acting this way you will calm it. Realize that love is the answer. People who hate had a rough past. Someone who believes … Second, I am with Deeb, ” Even if the hatred stems from what we represent instead of who we are.” Ih ave an idea of what you meant, but would love to hear this from you. Chiwendu Amadi. For 2018 I’m working on being more positive in my life. I’m basically a nice person. It’s good to be honest; then we know how to pray. We were told to "love our God with all our heart, mind, soul and strength." I’ve had huge synchronicity in my life the last few weeks, including The Life Coach School. A good stab of jealousy can make most people re-evaluate the status of their relationships with other people. She has to be such an unhappy person. Music mogul endorses Biden, launches new political party. It can be difficult to talk to your crush, but even more so to a crush who hates you. To love someone who hates you is a truly divine kind of love. I have been reminding myself of the verses that call us to seek peace, to forgive, and to love. July 19, 2017 at 12:17 AM. Thank you for this! My prayer is that what comes out of my mouth whether in someone’s presence or not will be uplifting and not negative. Make the wrong comment or express the wrong opinion on Facebook if you have any doubt that “haters gonna hate.”. Love never fails.”. Thank you, Dawn, for the much needed admonition to love in the face of someone who hates me…If I do not, I become hateful myself; ugly, angry, bitter, etc. See more of I LoVe SoMeOnE wHo hAtEs Me on Facebook. Fear that things will ever be right, fear that it will get worse, that I am not loved or lovable just because that indiv hates me, etc. I think I will do this too. And yet Jesus calls us to love our enemies: But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you . We are not defined by our demographics or our choices in one area. First of all, my word is Love this year. Watch Queue Queue. i love someone but he hates me what do i do? That conversation will happen tonight! How do you live with someone who hates you? Then he told us we needed to speak to our daughter-in-law. Are there people who hate me? I like the idea of a “word” for the year! Not Now. In January, we slow down and take a thoughtful look at both our lives and our goals: What’s working for me? I must be patient while the other person sorts through what they’ve interpreted to be true and the reality of what is true. They are not Christians. i met her six months back. But people love to talk about themselves. I have tried new crushes and now I have a new boyfriend but I am still in love with someone else. July 21, 2018 at 6:49 AM. Lynn, Thank you, Lynn! And thanks, Kim, that I wasn’t alone, in not getting it! This is a different but connected topic to loving those who hate us or are consistently unkind, even within the body of Christ. See more of I LoVe SoMeOnE wHo hAtEs Me on Facebook. Thanks again for your wonderful prayer! “Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends?” ~Abraham Lincoln. LOL. I love this guy but the guy I'm in love with hates me and can't stand me. That said, being nice to someone who is making your life miserable can help break down barriers between the two of you and possibly make the situation better. Terrie, Love is a great word! This isn't to say that the two of you will become fast friends. Nothing will stand between our prayers for each other and God's ears. Dawn, I appreciate this sobering truth. I have tried so many things to get over him but nothing ever works. This was very timely for me and has encouraged me to set aside my hurt and focus on being a blessing. And because he hated Jesus first he will do what he can to destroy us. Loving those who hate us is very hard and we can’t do it without God. I mean ACTUALLY dislikes me. Understanding this truth will allow you to accept them as they are and trust in their positive side. Thank you for the podcasts and showing how to love our haters. When someone hates you it is tempting to bite back. God bless you! I don’t think there’s a single adult person alive who has never confronted a hateful person, or who at some point in his or her life hasn’t been hateful toward others. Besides what is mentioned, I know that forgivness from the heart is SO necessary, and again and again as new hurts occur. Marie, this morning in my Bible study I came across this verse: “The Lord shall fight for you, and ye shall hold your peace.” – Exodus 14:14. 1 John 4:16 is a go to prayer for me…”Fill me with YOUR love, Lord, for ________, which casts out fear!” –for sometimes there is fear, too, as someone hates me. . I am a 17 yr old girl. i LOVE this girl at school long story short, she got me charged by the police and now she hates me i want to at least be frinds with her i LOVE her please dont say plenty more fish in the sea cause i dont care shes my first love and hopefully my last i want to spend the rest of my life with her. tell me ways she can like me again please thankyou. Jan 11, 2018 This site uses cookies to improve your user experience. Some relationships can be soul-destroying. ©2020 DaySpring Cards Inc. All Rights Reserved. He is dead now, some thirty years later and the many children are grown and even now living the horrors of PTSD, and struggling as they raise their own families. But, simply because I belong to the Lord, there will be people who hate or dislike me and what I stand for. It takes a constant check to speak only the positive over people, whether in their presence or absence. but she was not happy with the way her realtion was going. He holds each one. “Lord help me to love those who hate me, who hate my guts.”. Dawn, being hated by those who do not know Christ is expected … I am never surprised when someone who is not part of the body of Christ speaks against me. or. Amen!! The only way to truly resolve any kind of relationship issues is through love. A strong word, isn’t it, Dawn, and good for the transparency of that pastor. We don't get to pick our favorite way to love our God. My word for 2018 is love. Thank you for this ‘love’ly sharing Dawn – always the love flowing from my heart to those who love me and those who may not – the Lord has laid the word BRAVE upon my heart for 2018 – this year is shaping up to be one of great transformation – I trust that He will bless me with the courage and strength that I need to BRAVE it out. Paul writes so beautifully about love – he, too, was facing people who were against him; there were misunderstandings, they made accusations against him, and yet, he loved. I pray you and your husband would have comfort and God’s eyes to see the situation for what it really is – a hurting woman spreading her hurt in the twisted hope of finding healing and love through pushing the hurt away and on to others. Blessings, Dawn, as you live your way into the beauty of “Serve” in 2018. To be the recipient of hate and bitterness is such an awful feeling. Great post and a much needed confirmation. I’ve studied the concept of “One Word” for the year. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you back will surely help you understand what should be your priorities it will teach you never to put so much effort into someone who doesn’t deserve it, and it will make you understand that loving yourself more than loving anyone else is always a must. Posted Nov 08, 2020 . About See All. This is a hard one because we wrestle not against flesh and blood so we don’t always discern that sometimes the one appearing as an angel of light, and pretends to be your trustworthy friend, could possibly be a wolf in sheep’s clothing who actually hates our guts. 280 Shares. Going to embrace the truth you’ve shared here this morning. In reality, you will only make things worse, not only for yourself, but for those who show hatred toward you, thus helping perpetuate a cycle of hatred, which could easily be extended to other people as well. I’m sorry to say that even believers let hate enter the picture when it comes to differing beliefs, healing, spiritual gifts, the Rapture. Thank you for this! Living With Someone Who Hates You. What should I do . For the first week of knowing me he thought I was a 12 year old boy…I was 16, had short hair, and was over a foot shorter than him. Praying for all to work hard at loving others. // @dawnMHSH at @incourage: Dawn Camp is an Atlanta-based writer, photographer, and essential oil slinger currently juggling two life stages: mom to three teens and five adult children, mimi to five adorable grands. By understanding where they are coming from and by putting yourself in their shoes, you will come to see why they behave the way they do. What these findings suggest to me is that this love/hate dynamic is a normal part of close relationships. Peal, thank you for your words this morning and your encouragement for Marie! Anne and I were divorced after five years of marriage, when she admitted to having an affair. After all, I’d never heard the phrase “hate my guts” used in prayer, much less in one at such a large, public assembly. A much needed piece every day. Thank you so much for your prayers, Agnes. Perhaps they will see our loving kindness & come to Christ. I don’t think I understand it, but for some reason, it stuck out to me as something important. Réponse préférée. She went to prison and is no longer in the picture. This is something we know but that is easy for someone like me to forget. I do have someone who takes their frustrations out on me. The truth, however, is that the hatred that is shown toward you says more about the person who is expressing it than about yourself, and the more you understand this, the more you will be able to emotionally detach yourself from any hateful attacks that you face, which will help you to better deal with the situation you are in. He is faithful and one day He will deliver us from all of the evil of this world. Love is kind. 4 COMMENTS. Oh yes, truly loving can be challenging. I just read an email from someone who “hates” me. We were His enemies, and yet He loved us despite it and saved us, reconciling us to God. See actions … Bev xx. It changed everything. Pages Other Community I LoVe SoMeOnE wHo hAtEs Me Posts. Thank you for stirring these thoughts, Dawn! The kind of love that it takes to love those that hate us like this must indeed be sent from God for in our flesh there lives no such ability without Him who loved us and gave His life for us. I struggle with wanting to avoid the hurt and the hurtful person altogether. Create New Account. Put yourself in their shoes. If they contact me, that probably means they don’t hate me.” — Sascha W. 2. There's a girl in my school who very outwardly, blatantly dislikes me - and not in a love-hate way. Who hate my guts? Often you might think that they do so because you did something wrong, and you might try to justify their behavior, feeling that you deserve that kind of behavior. Our word for the year (actually two) is Compassion and Forgiveness. Dawn, At times, no matter how well you treat some people, you’ll still find out that they are behaving with a hateful attitude toward you. I want to be genuine in all I say and do–not just put on a facade of good character. Reshma Khan Reshma. Even if the hatred stems from what we represent instead of who we are. I have loved this person for over 40 years & they are so consistently hurtful with their words. I LoVe SoMeOnE wHo HAtEs Me. I love your 2018 word. Dawn, all I can say is WOW! God bless and GOD’s LOVE to you! Thank you so very much! I don’t know if I have actually been hated or not, but I have felt the sting of jealousy and dislike aimed my way. Ouvrez une session pour répondre aux questions Publier; Fergy. We’re believing we can all find healing! Thank you Dawn for your wise wisdom. So many of us are doing our best to use self control, a fruit of the spirit, and be angry and sin not. Instead, set a goal of understanding why this person hates you and work toward being the better person. I don’t know why she hates me, but the feeling is strong. Pardeep Virdi. Our heads bowed, our eyes closed. she would tell me that she loves the guy but and he is a very nice person. March 19, 2017 at 7:56 AM. I later learned … Jesus minister sinners and religious alike, and was mistreated by both, so we are in good company. A wooden, intellectually-centered faith is just as dangerous as an emotion-centered faith. I know it’s hard to forgive him for breaking your heart. What do I need to change? Forgot account? (Mine is Serve.). It seems hating your partner in the moment does not mean that you don’t also love them a lot—which is actually a bit of a revelation (and a relief). Thank you so much and God bless! . Neither works by itself. I was sure I had signed a contract with salvation and that my wife was going to be my savior. WOW! or. In our community it was a lay person in the church who randomly raped children each Sunday and set such fear in their hearts so as to not disclose anything. Répondre Enregistrer. Create New Account. My husband and I are right in the midst of trying to love our daughter-in-law who we feel “hates us”! Not merely to tolerate them or even to be capable of ignoring them— and that would be quite a thing because it hurts when you know someone hates you. 2,515 people like this. Yes, when we think on how Christ loves us in our unlovable state, we realize we don’t get a pass to hate others. I will be here for you if you need help. So thankful that “God demonstrated His own love for us in that while we were yet sinners (!!!!) What hurts me is the though of one of my brothers or sisters in Christ hating me. Instead, they react to people with hatred because they think that that’s the best way to protect themselves from them, after having gone through many painful, traumatic experiences during the course of their lives, which have left them in a constant psychological state of insecurity. Someone who is so arrogant that she will never admit her mistakes. You have no idea how much I needed to read your post today!! But the amazing thing is that even though the other person didn’t change, the relationship became semi-functional. i love someone who hates me. In 2018, I hope to serve and love those around me. Not Now. .  (Matthew 5:44). Visitor Posts. I do self harm, but i do not suggest you do so. Why do I like someone who hates me (mutually)? I am not talking about someone who sort of hates me. I get really anxious around groups of people. What I meant was, some people may hate us by what we represent: because we’re Christians, or because of the school choice we make for our children, or because of how we vote (or don’t vote), or because of the color of our skin (this happens no matter what the color) without actually getting to know us and who we are as individuals. ” Even if the hatred stems from what we represent instead of who we are.” Facebook is showing information to help you better understand the purpose of a Page. That just goes beyond my comprehension. I pray that God will soften her heart. However our son told us to prepare ourselves. Perhaps I need to use the word “love”! 0 0 0. Love rejoices with the truth. Thanks much for the clarification, Dawn! I appreciate Pearl, you also briefly mentioning healthy boundaries for this is vitally important in certain situations as well. Do I need to ask forgiveness and make amends, and if I have experienced prejudice, it is a powerful experience that helps me to seek forgiveness for my own prejudice, to be called up short, and to know how horrible that feels. Contact I LoVe SoMeOnE wHo hAtEs Me on Messenger. To love someone who hates you is a truly divine kind of love, the kind that allows you to push past the hurt and see people for themselves, beyond whatever misunderstandings or wrongs have piled up between you. 40 Comments One final prayer and then the singing school our family attends each summer would come to an end. Love always protects; it always trusts, it always hopes, it always perseveres. 18 réponses. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts about this sometimes difficult topic. If our apology is not accepted, all we can do is move forward and continue to show kindness whenever we can. she was in a relationship at that point of time. Last July she told us to our faces that she thinks we are “toxic”, she wants nothing to do with us and we are not to greet her, speak to her, send a gift or text, etc. I love, love, love that you tackled this subject! However, when the assault comes from someone within the body of Christ – that is crushing. Without the prayer support of my husband and a few close friends, there’s no way I could’ve continued. Of course, this is easier said than done, because in order to be able to love those who hate you, you must first cultivate love within yourself. 2,506 people follow this. TWEET. Showing love & kindness is hard in this situation. Dems hint at retaliation over Barrett nomination Thank you for the reminder to love and pray for those who hate us! She has rejected it all and will say such harsh things but we’ve taken those words with grace and not retaliated. Hugs! It hurts, but I can move past those assaults fairly easily. Blessings, Thank you so very much! Feeling negatively towards your partner does not mean that you are doing something wrong or that you are in the wrong relationship. What a God moment this is. 10. I would be naive to think otherwise. However she is open to giving it time and we pray that God will help heal her wounds and any hostility she feels towards us. Very interesting column – especially for the comments which followed. But no doubt there are times I’ve deserved dislike, based on what I’ve done or from my own attitudes. But, trust me, the hardest part is leaving when you want to stay. Someone who will make every effort to point out my flaws and mistakes. Step 1. Community. If a child or young adult, for instance has a sibling, parent, or other family member who seems to hate them, simply leaving is unlikely to be a viable option. Nobody is perfect, and everyone deserves to live a better, more beautiful and loving life. Watch Queue Queue Fighting never solved any problems and it never will–in fact, fighting, competition, and the war mentality that is prevalent in the modern world is what has created the majority of problems that we currently experience in the first place, both on an individual and collective level. Love For her sake and as believers, we need desperately to find peace. … and that’s where I am right now. Probably one of THE hardest things to do to someone who’s hurt us. (Completely different topics.) Im so broken hearted with all this and especially how she reacted with me with all the hate and blocked me from everywhere... it really striked me so deep in my heart how she acted with me. She’s the type of person that always wears a smile, but she will cut you to shreds while she’s smiling. Some of us even select a Word of the year, a theme that the Lord has laid upon our heart. ironically she is one of the best friends of my best friend. Good reminder and article. Understand that fighting won’t solve any problems. 🙂. I pray that I will love them in my heart and also in my words….that I won’t get caught up in saying snarky things behind people’s backs. “You can not hate someone you first did not love. Anyway, I’ll have to pray for them more & ask God to work in me to be a better example of Christ’s love. I’m asking for prayer from all my incourage family. I have experienced this in my life, it not only changes them, but also it changed my own heart! (Matthew 10:22). There has always been hatred in the world. I hope someone who feels moved by the Holy Spirit, will further this discussion about Love, forgiveness and healthy boundaries when necessary. She’s clearly struggling with something from her past and doesn’t want to get close. Love does not rejoice in evil. I also love that you are experiencing the magic. I’ve had only small experiences loving so-called enemies and wow! It makes me want to play this for family members and friends. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.”. Page Transparency See More. This is my 8th year to choose a Word, and it truly influences the course of my year! Like you, I don’t like to think that I am hated….how could that be? To love them. Detach yourself. Someone who believes she’s God. I pray for this journey of healing and that God’s supernatural love would be your source!! How to Talk to a Crush Who Hates You. At times, no matter how well you treat some people, you’ll still find out that they are behaving with a hateful attitude toward you. Marymargaret, I had an experience like this years ago. A much needed piece every day. See photo . But essentially, he launched an emotional warfare that ended in utter destruction- of us; of the kindness, compassion and respect we initially had; and of the person who he had fallen in love with. Il y a 1 décennie . he is having some problem which he is not telling to her. Log In. 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